Will You?


Will you understand me?

It’s okay if you don’t — at all times.

Because I do not understand myself as well — at all times.

Sometimes I go crazy. Sometimes crazier.

What I don’t understand is I sometimes prefer the crazier me.

Maybe my Creator prefers the same too. Who knows.

He knows.

Will you marry me?

It’s okay if you don’t — I’m married already.

That is not actually a question. It’s the topic in today’s Sunday service.

Well maybe it’s a question.

The important foundations of marriage were discussed — 5 C’s.

Covenant. Communication. Chemistry. Character. Christ.

I would say that if you only take Christ — He is the strongest foundation there is.

Will you?

I take this question with me.

Will you now do that chairs stacked in the garage? Is that my conscience whispering?

Got to move then! And so out the messy chairs — red leather seats torn and removed.


Red Chair.Repaint


These chairs have been repainted and reupholstered twice. That’s a different story.

What I’ll share today is I need to do this fast because my conscience might not make me sleep. Lol!

And so no more reupholstering. I just grabbed the spray paint, brush, and poster paints.

And quickly here it is.


Red Chair.Repainted


Just like that. It’s done!

Oh the other chair? It has a different question of course.

I will post it next time because I have yet to decide if I’ll include a marriage story with it. Lol!


Red Chair.Will you


Will you please share what’s your “WILL YOU?”

No you may not direct the question to me.

You want to ask God, “Will you…?”?

Go ahead please.


 ‘Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.’ – Jeremiah 33:3



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10 Responses to “Will You?”

  1. mariqia Says:

    Hi Rea, thanks for sharing the 5 C’s..:)

  2. Joshua H Wu Says:

    Maybe God does prefer the crazier you 😉

    Amazing work with the chairs! My conscious is telling me to help my dad paint the house…

    Will You? haha

    Thanks for the wonderful post Bendedspoon!

    • bendedspoon Says:

      I take that wink as God’s confirmation that He prefers the crazier me! I’ll let you in a secret — I actually think God is the craziest. He is not only that, He’s fun to be with as well — in fact He winked at me on several occasions.

      Keep that secret okay? Sometimes I worry that some may find me crazy, lol!

      Go help your dad! Now you hear it from me as well, lol! Seriously, it could be one of the best memories you and your dad will have. I know because I always cherish the time my kiddos help me paint portions of the house. The paint may not be evenly spread but it is so wow for me — love can do that. And you want your dad to experience that overflowing love, right? Now go get those paint and in between offer your dad a cold drink and toss some smiles — as if you are not tired. Don’t be surprised if he wants to repaint the house every now and then, lol!

      Much blessings to you Joshua! 🙂

  3. Debbie Says:

    You are always such a delight and surprise and a deep deep well of His love, our sweet spoon!!! LOVED the chair . ..LOVE you . ..LOVE Jesus , so will ask Him if He will please keep changing me. God bless you and thank you for being you and being here!

    • bendedspoon Says:

      Oh my Debbie! Now I own you, lol! I am just saying how valuable you have been to me — I can feel your sincere love. With that sincerity it’s obvious who owns you — God owns you! You know how much God loves His own, right?
      Hugggggggs and loves to you 🙂

  4. The 5C’s. The red chair. And Bended Spoon. 🙂

    Reading your words always makes me feel better.

    • bendedspoon Says:

      The one C. The One Master. And chatter with love.
      Thinking of good things always make me feel blessed.
      The Lord our Master loves you Colleen!
      Me too 🙂

  5. I was so glad to see that you had a new post. I love your attitude and how you did the chair! Thank you for giving me a new question to consider, too, and also the beautiful scripture.


    • bendedspoon Says:

      I realized that something may get done when immediately acted upon and surely something good gets done when God is thought upon. Love love love to you! 🙂

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