Dear Hubby


Dear Hubby,

Last year you asked me if I wanted an ipad and I said no because I have a laptop already. But still you bought me one because you knew I will like it.

And true enough I liked it! It’s handy and I can use it while lying in bed. That is if I’m not yet off to dreamland the moment my back touched the bed.

This year you asked me if I wanted an iPhone or Note 2 and I said no because the phone you gave me still works. But still you gave me one because you knew I will like it.

And true enough I liked it! It’s handy and helped me in my current project. I was able to sketch-erase-sketch an organizational chart, among others.

And so I realized that as much as it is important that you should know what your wifey like — like a vintage aqua Volkswagen van (wink wink) it is also important for me to appreciate the gift you feel is important.

Of course I do appreciate them all my techie hubby! I love how you knew I needed something which I didn’t ask for because I am a DIY-junky-vintagey wifey!

And so for your birthday we are giving you something which you might not want but trust me you will love this because…we do!


Boys Fishing by L. Mirabueno

Boys Fishing
by L. Mirabueno

Believe me this is priceless because you will remember the times the boys gone fishing with you. Yes, I know they’re quiet in the painting unlike in real life where they scared the fish off so you won’t catch anything! But then, it can still come true one of these days, lol!





Believe me this is priceless because one day you will remember how your artsy daughters stayed late to finish painting this just for you!

So love it, love it because we love you, love you!




P.S. Your birthday wish for wisdom and prayer of thankfulness to God is a gift itself.

And yes, the greatest gift is already given to us. Not every one may want Him but God the Father knew that we all need Him.


There are different kinds of gifts, but the same Spirit distributes them. There are different kinds of service, but the same Lord. There are different kinds of working, but in all of them and in everyone it is the same God at work. – 1Corinthians 12:4-6


7 Responses to “Dear Hubby”

  1. Debbie Says:

    Happy Birthday to your most blessed hubby! And lots of love and hugs for YOU, his precious wife!

    • bendedspoon Says:

      Most blessed hubby — check!
      His precious wife — check!
      Love and hugggs to you too for getting it right Debbie!
      But wait, let’s check if he agree, lol.

      For all we know he will check the comments here just like when he read the post and let me know he appreciates it! πŸ™‚

  2. mariqia Says:

    I love the Love you give each other. πŸ™‚ You deserve this blessings dear Rea.

    • bendedspoon Says:

      Thank you so much Cel for seeing the Love! Being able to ‘see’ is an overflow of a loving heart. If each of the spouse ‘see’ the
      Love offered then both will feel blessed. But sometimes there is a failure to see the gift because it doesn’t fit with the expectations.

      Continue being the Love that you are to your hubby πŸ™‚

  3. What beautiful gifts you are to one another. πŸ™‚

    • bendedspoon Says:

      Colleen, we need to talk about that and I am not sure where to start, lol! Let me start it with another post but before you worry let me assure you that yes, we are beautiful gifts to one another but…

      Remember when I said love is weird and the digging? Well, love is weird! And the digging continues but now for another reason πŸ™‚

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