My posts are coming very far between.
I think of you my blog friends.
I feel like I kept you hanging. Thank you for hanging around though.
It has been a crazy schedule and let me share to you how crazy it is, here.
My holidays are planned already, 24/27.
I need to refocus. I need to inventory my life.
I am sorry that I need to say farewell to this refuge and to you my blog friends.
I started blogging when I decided that I needed to move on from a very painful season of my life.
Thank you for coming to my life one by one. Thank you for lifting me up, for understanding, and yes, for loving me just as I am.
I have moved on but that is not to say that I no longer hurt each time there are triggers to remind me.
But thank God, He is always there to comfort me.
And now I am moving on, again.
Shall we take one last look of how the spoons were bent?
The benders have grown now. Look what happened to them after three years — so fast.
They continue to bloom wonderfully. Thank God.
Got to create memories together with them.
Blend into the colors of their lives.
So this is it. Farewell to bended spoon. No, it won’t evolve to bent spoon. I liked it that way, when some still appreciates despite the imperfection.
Farewell bended spoon.
Fare well my friends. Bloom.
Fare well. Fare well. Fare well.
Bloom. Bloom. Bloom.
The desert and the parched land will be glad; the wilderness will rejoice and blossom. Like the crocus, it will burst into bloom; it will rejoice greatly and shout for joy. The glory of Lebanon will be given to it, the splendor of Carmel and Sharon; they will see the glory of the Lord, the splendor of our God. – Isaiah 35:1-2
This is the easiest DIY, ever!
The pallet was used for my daughter’s birthday Sweets Corner — just 10 DIY steps.
First, you need a pallet — of course!
Good if you can buy at bargain price.
Better if given to you free.
Best if someone sent you goodies — in a pallet crate!
Second, lean it on the wall — that easy!
Between 1st and 2nd, remove the parts you do not want — like boards and nails.
Use hammer please!
Third, add table and chairs.
Mine were vintage and junky!
Fourth, add on other props lying around the home.
A frame, 2-tier holder, and a vintage carousel horse are good for me.
Hammer not included! I used it for the nails where I hanged the frame.
Fifth, make pompoms and hang them.
You will love the pallet for making it so easy to tie the pompoms.
But you have to decide beforehand how many pompoms you need — because making them can be addicting!
Sixth, add flowers.
No need to buy vases when you have empty beverage bottles.
Notice the trimmings? Those are pompoms scraps.
No need to throw them yet. Just scatter them on the table — because you are the boss!
Seventh, add more flowers!
Horse charming got to offer some flowers to the Princess.
And look after her crown while still sleeping — shhh this is a surprise party that the Princess wanted us to prepare.
Eighth, don’t forget the sweets.
Because the pallet backdrop is for Sweets Corner!
Ninth, show off the pallet backdrop.
Be sure that it is in the back 🙂
Tenth, add the sweetest.
Count the fingers — except those that form the binocular to see you.
The sweetest Princess turned six!
Now back to the pallet. I do not see its life ending yet.
As is, I have some more things to hang and change them as frequent as I like without worrying on nail holes.
I could paint it. Distressed it. Remove the paint. Paint it again. Whatever.
How about you, what would you do with it? Aside from throw it 🙂
Light in a messenger’s eyes brings joy to the heart, and good news gives health to the bones. – Proverbs 15:30
It’s good to be home.
To slow down.
To linger longer…
With the meals
My sweet daughter planted the mongo seeds and so some smiles sprouted.
My 10 year old boy is so elated with his medal. He has been thinking about it two weeks ago and now he did have it.
Last week he placed it in the corner of the tv so everyone can see it — on a weekend.
Then the morning after that, he hung it to Thor so he can see it – before he goes to sleep.
Now he moved it on the cross in the dining table so everyone can see it – every day!
Oh yes, the giant clam shell.
It’s not a real one and I’m glad it is not.
I would like to think that the real big ones are still in the depths of the seas.
Clam beds for the mermaids maybe — could they be real?
Oh yes, the giant clam shell.
I bought it for my hubby, for his future fishing cottage.
It’s only P1,200.00 ($27 – 26” x 18”) compared to on line price of $148 at smaller size of 22” x 13”.
For now, I’ll accommodate it.
But I suspect that he knew all along that I want it too.
Well, to give and to receive. Or shall we say sharing?
Oh, there’s our fishing cottage!
The the Lord replied: “Write down the revelation and make it plain on tablets so that a herald may run with it. For the revelation awaits an appointed time; it speaks of the end and will not prove false. Though it linger, wait for it; it will certainly come and will not delay.” – Habakkuk 2:2-3
Sure you were present when the kiddos were born
Sure you changed their diapers without complaining
Sure you assembled lego altogether
Sure you cooked the best kare kare for them
Sure you brought them to pet stores
Sure you taught the boys how to handle worms
Sure you solved the kiddos techie problems
Sure you applied kiddos with sunblock
Sure you carried them on your shoulders
Sure you can drive 12 hours straight for a road trip
Sure you showed them what redeemed is
But still you are not the best Father!
Sure you know that we love you lots, right?
And the best Father loves you right, lots!
Happy Father’s Day with love love love love…!
As a father has compassion on his children, so the LORD has compassion on those who fear him; – Psalm 103:13
And so the camera was stolen
And the aquarium fishes died
And the mugs were broken
And my right arm is in pain
But I won’t zoom out those things.
Today is holiday in here – our 115th Independence Day
I’m free from office work and be with the kiddos
I’m free to prepare their meals
I’m free to savor the moments at home
And I will zoom out these things.
Now I am looking at the big picture
I am just glad for all that I have
That I can live in this moment
Here right now
Clap your hands, all you nations; shout to God with cries of joy. – Psalm 47:1
Oh yes! If in doubt, ask my kiddos!
My kiddos regularly say I am the best mom.
I know I am not but still I accept with deep thanks their love for me – it’s God’s gift.
I know it is the adult me and other adults who say I am not the best mom, or them not the best mom, or them not the best person.
But my kiddos know better. They appreciate who I am and not look for who I am not compared to others; they appreciate what I can do and not look for what I do imperfectly compared to others; they appreciate my love and not look for another mom.
The more they appreciate me regardless of the condition we are in, the more I feel their overflowing love. The more thankful and happier I am!
We adults have a lot to learn from the kids.
– No comparing. Appreciate the person who loves you.
– The best doesn’t mean perfect.
– No need to focus on imperfection, love instead.
– There can be a billion bests. It only needs people who are grateful enough.
Happy mother’s day to the best mom — YOU ARE THE BEST MOM!
If in doubt, be kiddolike.
“Do you hear what these children are saying?” they asked him. “Yes,” replied Jesus, “have you never read, “‘From the lips of children and infants you, Lord, have called forth your praise’?” – Matthew 21:16
I love this day. And yesterday. And the day before yesterday.
I had breakfast with my hubby – home made daing na bangus (dried milkfish).
Fresh from yesterday’s catch from Aling Nene’s Pond in Valenzuela.
My angler boys made another trip to the pond sans the girls. Could they be challenged from our earlier visit where our one and only take home fish is caught by the mom (that’s me!)?
Here are the photos of the fishing trip 2 days ago and yes, let’s define ‘caught’ later on.
Here’s the first catch of the day! The fish is not big enough to take home so back to the water. And the triumphant smile goes to my heart!
Here’s the 2nd catch of the day! The fish is not big enough to take home so again back to the water. And the happy smile goes to my heart!
Here’s the 3rd catch of the day! The fish is too small to take home so again back to the water. And yes, the grateful smile goes to my heart! Finally, he caught one after several fishes got away from the hook.
Here’s the big catch of the day! Just big enough to take home for sinigang 🙂
And yes, I caught it and here’s how:
- The boys have been convincing me to fish instead of roaming around and so I agreed.
- My son put the mashed flour bait in the hook and cast it to the direction I pointed.
- I held the rod, occasionally looking at the floater, while I read a home magazine.
- Then I felt something is pulling my rod and so I screamed. I screamed!
- The boys saved me from the struggling fish!
It’s obvious I caught the fish, right?
Hurray for the girls!
And so the next day – that was yesterday, the boys were determined to beat the record. And they succeeded with 18 take home fishes! They were so excited that they forgot to take photos but it’s alright, I’m enjoying the daing na bangus. Not even the vinegar can stop me from smiling sweetly 🙂
There is so much to thank for…
And hey, don’t be disappointed with the small fish catch because there are large ones meant for the seasoned angler — 10 kilos and above.
As for the family, the priority is to catch smiles and we did!
Now going? Aling Nene has cottages on the side.
And in the middle — go rafting!
And yes, you can fish without renting a cottage.
Enjoy the day!
Which of you fathers, if your son asks for a fish, will give him a snake instead?
– Luke 11:11